Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Lesson Learnt From My Failed Relationships

Falling in love is the best feeling a person can experience, but it comes with irony. Its not all rainboww. :/ It comes with pain, struggle and a lot of valuable lessons.


  • You might drop your values, beliefs and principle because of emotions
When emotions are involved, It can be extremely hard to actually do the right thing. Usually you would be very in love with your partner and you would want to be with him or her no matter what
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Dont be surprised with the things you might do in a relationship.
Its ridiculous but that is the power of love i gotta say ;) you should atleast be aware of that.


  • People change and that may hurt
People chaange. Even you do.
That is part of human nature. What happen to u and things around you are the most unstable things. It changes consistently. then why got attached to this world? :)

Even they loved u at one point or another. They do change.
Even at some point the feeling change. :')

Its really hurtful when this means leaving you behind as you have no place in their new way of life.
Use your head, try to make things out or move on.

  • Things Always Happen When The Least Expected
You are never going to be prepared. That is very scary but nothing can really prepare you for the ups and down of romance. Its like a crazy roller coaster where u cant see the tracks.

"love is just a crazy energy that come n go as it pleases. so dont be surprised when it falls into your lap for seemingly no reason. Yet, dont be too hurt when it leaves too"
i dont know where i got this since i always jot down when i come across beautiful phrases...
but this is soo true..


  • Your Happiness is Your Responsibility, not Your Partner
yes, you are responsible for your own happiness and your life. Learn to love yourself unconditionally. Make yourself happy. Do whatever you love. Life is too short not to do so.

Make your needs satisfied so that you feel content because that is the only way to avoid jealousy, insecurity, greediness and all the negativity.
Do you realized that you are annoyed easily when you are not happy?
Do you realized when you are not happy it is actually because something is not enough?
Its not enough because your needs are not satisfied.
Good news is, you can control that. ;)

You sweat the small stuff quite a lot when you are in negative state.
Small things seem soo big.
But when you are happy, or in positive state, nothing can make you angry that much.


  • Give  Your Best Anyway
Just give your all. That is all that u can control, yourself. when you give your all, u can sleep at night thinking that you have given your all even if that person leaves you. when u give your best, theres nothing u can do more. There is no regret.
I have come to a point hat i have fear of regret. yes. to avoid that i have to give my all in everything that i do, including LOVE.

Just love with no regret. Tomorrow is not even guarateed =)